Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Keep talking

  When I look back at the past 2 1/2 years, I am amazed at all that has taken place. So much turmoil and chaos, grief, joy, and bliss. It has been a year now since we left Bend, and the parting was bitter sweet. I cant imagine how life would be had we stayed in Bend, however, I feel we made the right move at the right time. There has been way too many ups and downs than I care for in the 1 1/2 years prior to the move and from that time until now. I miss many things about Central Oregon, but love just as many new things here. I hope to have as many fond memories of the North bay when the time comes to move on.
  Even with all the uncertainty that we have experienced on this leg of our journey, I am reminded every day of the little things in life that make it so special. Apollo is the one good thing that has been constant through out this time period, that keeps me grounded. I cherish every moment with this little guy and I am constantly rewarded with his sweetness, insight, development, and love. It is hard to be consumed with worries when your son is waiting for you the moment you come through the door, and greets you with; "Dada!" and runs into your arms. Then he tells me all about his day, drags me to his room to "dance" and play with his toys, read stories, and learn new words.
  Thanks to his uncle Gooch, Apollo has been immersed into "My baby can read". This program works! Apollo can read about 40+ words now. I am amazed how well he retains them. It has only been 3 months since we started this program, and the last month hasn't been real consistent, but I can pull out one of his books or cards that we haven't gone over in a couple weeks, and he will still remember most of the words. His curiosity has been peaked by his new abilities, so he wants to know what everything is called, and wants to see the name of the object written out. He knows most of the alphabet now as well. This is not part of the program, just and added bonus as he wants to know what the letters are called. He does not yet know that there is an order to the alphabet, but that's not bad for a 27 month old. He is quite the chatter box (thanks to Melly's genes). We cant always understand what he is saying, but he sure knows, and he says it with conviction.
  As, he learns the right way to say them,  I will miss the way Apollo pronounces many of the words and phrases he uses now. I will make an attempt to preserve some of those memories here, as it wont be long before he speaks clearly.Many of these Apolloism are all ready gone.
  Mulk=Milk. Wan baba= I want a bottle. Pake=pancake. Cookah=cookie. Cholk=chocolate. peas=please. Tane gue= thank you. Pitty truck= pretty truck. Elly=elephant. Showee= shower. Flowee= flower. Go brush= lets go brush our teeth.Go mono=Lets go somewhere in the motor home. Go home, see Remi?= Can we go home now and see my dog?. Do spido? = Can you sing Itsy bitsy Spider?.  Dada! no pince Apollo's feet's, kay?= Dad, stop pinching my feet!, Okay?!. Go side walk now?= can we go for a walk outside now?.  Put that  (accompanied by pointing and a noun)= I want that, right here, i.e. "put that Dada's shoes here!" as he points to the spot where he would like me to stand, or, "put that Remi on!" as he points to the blanket in which he would like his dog to be placed.
  I could go on and on as these are just a few of my favorites. It all goes so fast and I know I have forgotten some of the things he used to say. With out looking at his baby book, I am not even sure of his first word. I do remember the first word I remember him saying was; "ish" for fish. He was 10 months old and used to watch the fish in our reef tank and point at them and say "ish".
  Apollo also likes to count stairs as he climbs them. We have inadvertently taught him how to count. Imagine our surprise when Apollo looks into a field as we pass and says, "See five cows, mama?", lo and behold, there would be 5 cows. The first time we thought was a fluke, but after a few times...well that's just pretty damn cool!
  What an experience it is to watch each day bring new words, expressions and phrases. For now, I cant wait for Apollo to learn enough words to carry on a conversation. Just remind me of this blog a year from now when I cant get him to stop talking. I have been trying to get his mom to stop talking over the past 11 years, but I am certain I would have better luck parting the Red Sea.

3 comments:

  1. Husband, I know you think you are the only one who does the "baby can read" but I do it with him too. I don't think he's gone weeks between any of the books. Yes I know that I don'tplay two videos per day (he's not interested) and sometimes we miss whole days of video but we always read the books silly! Oh I know this is just your version of your world ~ Sorry. ;-) I love you and will miss this age too! I love seeing how amazing his little brain is and how sweet his spirit is. :-)

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  2. Wife, I know you think I am not giving credit where credit is due, and I am probably not, but I do know that you are the one that does most of this with him, and I just do the intermitent flash cards and books. When I say a couple of weeks, I am refering to the cards I keep in my day pack that I pull out from time to time. You, my dear wife, are doing an amazing job with this!

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